Help! I have Compassion Fatigue! Now What?!
Types of rest for self-care
Self-care has become a popular topic in recent years, with many people recognizing the importance of taking care of themselves in order to maintain their overall well-being. One aspect of self-care that is often overlooked is rest. Rest is not just about getting enough sleep or taking a vacation, but it encompasses various types of rest that are necessary for our physical, mental, and emotional health.
The first type of rest is physical rest. This is what most people think of when they hear the word rest – taking a nap or lying in bed. However, physical rest can also include activities such as yoga or light stretching, which allow our bodies to relax and recharge. Physical rest is essential for repairing and rejuvenating our muscles, as well as reducing physical fatigue.
Another type of rest is mental rest. This type of rest is crucial for those who have taxing mental jobs or find themselves constantly engaged in mentally challenging tasks. Mental rest can involve activities that allow our minds to take a break from thinking and problem-solving, such as engaging in a hobby or spending time in nature. It is important to give our minds the opportunity to recharge and replenish their cognitive resources.
Sensory rest is another type of rest that is often overlooked. In today’s fast-paced and overstimulating world, our senses are constantly bombarded with information and stimuli. Taking time to rest our senses can involve finding a quiet and peaceful environment, away from noise and distractions. It can also involve engaging in activities that are soothing to our senses, such as listening to calming music or taking a relaxing bath. Sensory rest allows us to reset and recharge our senses, promoting a sense of calm and well-being.
Being creative is also a form of rest. Engaging in creative activities allows us to express ourselves and tap into our inner creativity. Whether it’s cooking, crafting, or engaging in artistic endeavors, being creative provides a sense of fulfillment and rejuvenation. It allows us to focus on the present moment and channel our energy into something that brings us joy.
Emotional rest is essential for our mental and emotional well-being. It involves taking the time to process and express our emotions in a safe and supportive environment. This can be achieved through talking to a trusted friend or therapist, journaling, or engaging in activities that promote emotional well-being, such as meditation or mindfulness practices. Emotional rest allows us to release pent-up emotions and find a sense of inner peace.
Social rest is another important aspect of self-care. It involves connecting with others and nurturing our relationships. Spending time with loved ones, having meaningful conversations, or simply enjoying the company of others can be incredibly rejuvenating. Social rest allows us to feel supported, understood, and valued, which contributes to our overall well-being.
Finally, spiritual rest involves connecting with something larger than ourselves. This can involve engaging in religious or spiritual practices, spending time in nature, or reflecting on our values and beliefs. Spiritual rest provides a sense of purpose and meaning, and allows us to find solace and peace in our lives.
Self-care is not selfish
Self-care is not selfish. This is a statement that is often misunderstood or dismissed. Many people view self-care as a luxury or a self-indulgent act, but in reality, it is a necessary practice for maintaining our overall well-being. Megan and Elizabeth discuss the importance of self-care and how it is not about being selfish, but rather about taking care of ourselves so that we can better take care of others.
They begin by acknowledging that there are many things happening in our lives, and being intentional about addressing each one is crucial. They emphasize the importance of self-awareness and knowing what we need to best take care of ourselves. This is not about being selfish, but rather about recognizing that just like a car needs gas and maintenance to run efficiently, we also need to know what will keep us running efficiently and last for as long as possible.
They address the notion that self-care is often seen as selfish because someone else may perceive that we are not giving them enough attention. They argue that we do not have to give others the amount of attention they want if it is not feasible for us. Instead, we need to understand our own limits and prioritize our own well-being. This does not mean neglecting others, but rather finding a balance that allows us to take care of ourselves while still being there for others.
Self-compassion is a key aspect of self-care. They explain that as helping professionals, it is common to put our own needs on the back burner in order to help others. However, they stress that taking care of ourselves is an act of self-compassion and is necessary for us to continue helping others effectively. They emphasize that we need to believe that we are worth taking the time to care for ourselves and that our inherent worthiness does not depend on achievements or external factors.
They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and aligning our decisions with our values. They highlight the value in identifying what is truly important to us and using that as a guide for establishing boundaries and making decisions. They acknowledge that there may be situations in helping professions that stretch our boundaries, but it is crucial to bring self-compassion and self-care back into balance in other areas of our lives.
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