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Therapists Talking About Their Personal Experience With Therapy

07 July 2023/in Blog, Mindfulness, Podcast, Self Love/by Megan Bartley

Somatic experiencing therapy helps regulate emotions.

In season 2, episode 2 (part 2) of the Shifting Our Shit (S.O.S) podcast, therapist Britt Riddle,
D.Min., MAMFT shares her personal experience with somatic experiencing therapy. She
explains that as a competitive gymnast as a child, she was very in tune with her body, but after
experiencing trauma as a teenager, she lost her connection with her body and the wisdom it held.
Somatic experiencing therapy is based on the idea that traumatic experiences can get trapped or
frozen in our bodies, which can keep us from fully processing a traumatic experience, leading to
dysregulation in our nervous systems. Somatic experiencing therapy invites awareness and
expression of physical sensations and movement associated with the trauma in order to release
“frozen” energy—this might look like screaming in a safe environment like a parked car or
letting tears freely flow rather than trying to block them.
Britt also incorporates somatic work into her practice of therapy, particularly when working with
individuals in helping professions who often have to suppress their own emotions in order to be
“on” for other people, which over time, can lead to a build-up of stress.

Pay attention to your body.

Many of us go through life without paying much attention to the physical sensations and signals
that our bodies are sending us. This lack of awareness can lead to a variety of problems,
including difficulty managing emotions, chronic stress, and even physical health issues.
Britt discusses how holding our breath during times of stress can contribute to feelings of panic
and dysregulation. By practicing breath work, we can create a muscle memory of deep and
regulated breathing. This can help us stay grounded and calm during moments of heightened
emotions or stress.

Britt also talks about the importance of grounding practices, such as intentionally noticing your
feet on the floor (or ground) in order to feel connected to the earth. Mindfulness does not have to
require a huge time commitment, but can be incorporated into daily life—taking a few moments
at a red light to focus on your breath or noticing sensations happening in your body. These
mindfulness practices can create a greater sense of emotional awareness and nervous system
regulation.

Grounding is important for self-care.

Grounding is an important aspect of managing personal energy and practicing self-care. Megan,
a Reiki master, discusses how our energy is often concentrated in the upper chakras (the mind),

causing us to feel disconnected from our bodies and the present moment. The shift this, Megan
suggests the practice of grounding, which brings the energy down through the body and into the
feet, creating a sense of connection and presence. This can be done through practices such as
stomping your feet or wiggling your toes.
Grounding can also be done with our thoughts. By consciously naming the experience of being
grounded, we can create a pause in our thoughts and bring ourselves to the present moment. This
pause allows for a deeper sense of awareness and a break from the constant stream of thoughts
and distractions that put us into autopilot mode.
Britt is an expert in working with clients who want to increase self-care and decrease compassion
fatigue and burnout. Her calm and grounded presence is appreciated by those who have worked
with her, and she personally understands the challenges faced by individuals in helping
professions. Her approach to therapy emphasizes the importance of grounding, mindfulness, and
body awareness to help clients maintain nervous system regulation, which can lead to healthier
and more fulfilling lives.

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Finding Peace and Joy in Everyday Life

06 June 2023/in Blog, Mindfulness, Self Love, Stress/by Megan Bartley

What would it take for you to feel more peace and joy in your life?

Perhaps a whole life overhaul? Perhaps not.

Someone asked me recently how to be less judgemental and negative. I gave her a few options to experiment with. Maybe they’ll be helpful for you too!

  1. Focus on all the things you can be thankful for – even if they seem small. Having a roof over your head, food in your belly, a car that runs. Find a handful of gratitudes every day. If they’re the same ones for a bit, that’s ok too. Perhaps with time, you can see more.
  2. Surround yourself with sensory things that feel good. For example, drink your favorite tea or coffee, wear your favorite shirt or shoes, burn that candle that smells divine, listen to your favorite songs, and surround yourself with your favorite colors. It seems trivial, yet it’s not!
  3. Use more adjectives to describe things, people, and events. See things from many angles. Instead of seeing things or people or situations in black/white terms (good/bad, right/wrong, etc.), use more descriptive adjectives to describe these things. Instead of a situation just being horrible and awful, perhaps it was also hard, taxing, and exhausting, and maybe there were some things to be learned from it.
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The Magic of Ted Lasso

06 June 2023/in Anger, Blog, Boundaries, Mindfulness, Podcast, Self Love, Therapy/by Megan Bartley

Megan and Rob are back with Season 1, Episode 27 of the SOS Podcast, where they talk about their weekend plans and the idea of “calling your shot” as seen in the popular show Ted Lasso. Megan shares her recent experience of appearing on live TV and feeling confident in her performance, while Rob hints at a personal accomplishment related to hypnosis. The hosts delve into the benefits of Ericksonian hypnosis, which Megan is studying and finds to be a natural and effective form of healing.

 

Ted Lasso inspires natural healing.

Ted Lasso, the popular television series, has become a source of inspiration for natural healing. The show’s main character, Ted Lasso, is a positive and optimistic coach who inspires his team to reach their full potential. His message of positivity and kindness has resonated with viewers and has even inspired some to explore natural healing techniques.

 

One of the most memorable scenes from the show is when Ted Lasso is at a bar with the owner of the club and her ex-husband. He talks about the importance of not judging others and being curious. He even calls his shot in a game of darts, choosing “barbecue sauce” as his target. This scene has become a symbol of the show’s message of positivity and optimism and has inspired many to adopt a similar mindset.

 

Megan has been inspired by Ted Lasso’s message of natural healing. She is currently studying the Ericksonian hypnosis technique, which is based on neuroscience and gene expression. This technique is more conversational and indirect than traditional hypnosis and focuses on natural healing through positive suggestion and visualization.

 

Megan sees the Ericksonian hypnosis technique as the epitome of natural healing. It is a way to tap into the body’s natural healing abilities and to promote positive change through positivity and suggestion. She believes that this technique can be a powerful tool for anyone looking to improve their mental and physical health.

 

The message of Ted Lasso is one of positivity, kindness, and natural healing. The show has inspired many to adopt a similar mindset and to explore natural healing techniques like the Ericksonian hypnosis technique. By promoting positivity and kindness, Ted Lasso has become a symbol of hope and healing for many and has inspired a new generation of natural healers.

 

Ericksonian therapy.

Ericksonian therapy is a form of hypnosis that focuses on storytelling and shifting perspectives. This technique is often used to help people get unstuck and to facilitate aha moments. In the show, Ted Lasso, the titular character exhibits many traits that align with Ericksonian therapy. For example, he often tells stories and uses metaphors to teach lessons, allowing the listener to come up with their own answers and perspectives. This technique is effective because it allows the listener to wire the lesson into their brain in a more meaningful way.

 

Ted Lasso’s coaching team also exhibits traits of Ericksonian therapy. Each member has their own specific role, and Ted doesn’t get into a hardcore, tell-you-what-to-do parental role. Instead, he trusts his team to come up with their own solutions and perspectives. This promotes a sense of collaboration and trust, which are important aspects of Ericksonian therapy.

 

In addition to promoting positivity and kindness, Ted Lasso also explores natural healing techniques like EMDR. While EMDR is not technically part of Ericksonian therapy, it does share some similarities. For example, both techniques focus on shifting perspectives and facilitating aha moments. In the show, Ted inadvertently teaches others to adopt these techniques, promoting natural healing and self-discovery.

 

Overall, Ted Lasso is a great example of how positivity, kindness, and natural healing techniques can be effective in promoting mental health and well-being. By exploring Ericksonian therapy and other natural healing techniques, the show has inspired a new generation of healers and therapists who prioritize collaboration, trust, and kindness in their work.

 

Hypnosis is not mind control.

One of the techniques explored in the podcast is hypnosis, which has often been misunderstood as a form of mind control. However, the episode explains that hypnosis is actually a way of helping individuals relax their conscious thinking just enough so that their subconscious can come into play and either make sense of things or help find order or give more information. It is not about controlling someone’s thoughts or actions, but rather about creating an environment that is accepting, compassionate, and open, and allowing individuals to find their own answers.

 

The podcast also emphasizes that hypnosis is not a one-size-fits-all solution and that everyone processes information differently. Some people are visual learners or processors, while others are audio or kinesthetic feeling-based. Hypnosis, therefore, needs to be tailored to each individual’s unique needs and preferences.

 

Megan and Rob also touch on the power of storytelling in hypnosis. They explain that it doesn’t matter what the story is, but rather the storyteller’s positive trance that invites listeners to also go into a positive trance, making them more willing to hear what is being said. This is similar to how Ted Lasso’s positivity and enthusiasm create a positive environment that inspires and motivates those around him.

 

Remember, hypnosis is not mind control, but rather a natural healing technique that can be effective in promoting mental health and well-being. It is about creating an environment that is accepting, compassionate, and open, and allowing individuals to find their own answers. By understanding and embracing the power of hypnosis, we can help individuals overcome mental health challenges and lead happier and more fulfilling lives.

 

Flexibility in mindfulness practice.

Megan and Rob discuss the concept of flexibility in mindfulness practice. The Mindfulness Center, as the name suggests, aims to help individuals become more mindful, but not necessarily in a rigid or prescriptive way. The center’s therapists do not take an expert role or give advice but rather empower the client to find their own solutions. This approach is based on the idea that individuals have the capacity to activate their subconscious and heal themselves, with the therapist serving as a guide rather than a director.

 

They also highlight the importance of flexibility in the practice of mindfulness. While mindfulness techniques such as breathing exercises can be helpful, they are not the only way to become more mindful. The center’s therapists use a variety of approaches, including Ericksonian techniques, to help clients become more mindful in their own way. This flexibility allows individuals to find what works best for them and to develop their own mindfulness practice.

 

The concept of flexibility in mindfulness practice is important because it recognizes that each individual is unique and that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to mindfulness. By allowing individuals to find their own way of becoming more mindful, the center empowers them to take control of their own mental health and well-being. This approach is in line with the idea of hypnosis as a natural healing technique that promotes mental health and well-being by creating an environment that is accepting, compassionate, and open.

 

Flexibility in mindfulness practice is essential for promoting mental health and well-being. By empowering individuals to find their own way of becoming more mindful, the Mindfulness Center helps them take control of their own mental health and well-being. This approach is in line with the power of hypnosis as a natural healing technique that can help individuals overcome mental health challenges and lead happier and more fulfilling lives.

 

Positive mindset leads to growth.

Megan and Rob discuss the power of positive mindset and how it can lead to growth and progress in various aspects of life. They emphasize the importance of shifting one’s thinking to see a bigger rainbow of options instead of being rigid in one’s beliefs and choices. By doing so, individuals can become more flexible and open-minded in their decision-making, leading to better outcomes and personal growth.

 

Megan and Rob also draw parallels between the positive mindset of the character Ted Lasso in the TV series and the benefits of having a positive trance in one’s personal and professional life. Ted Lasso’s intention to help his players become better human beings, not just better players, is a testament to the power of positive mindset and how it can impact those around us.

 

Furthermore, they highlight the importance of values and their crucial role in shaping our mindset and actions. By staying true to our values and beliefs, we can maintain a positive trance and create positive interactions with others.

 

In conclusion, the podcast reinforces the idea that a positive mindset leads to growth and progress in various aspects of life. By being flexible, open-minded, and true to our values, we can create positive interactions with others and promote our mental health and well-being. The power of a positive mindset and hypnosis as a natural healing technique can help individuals overcome mental health challenges and lead happier and more fulfilling lives.

 

Goodbye and thanks, Megan.

However, Megan and Rob also remind us of the importance of saying goodbye and expressing gratitude. This simple act of saying goodbye and expressing appreciation can have a significant impact on our relationships and our overall well-being.

 

Saying goodbye is an essential part of any relationship, whether it’s a professional or personal one. It allows us to acknowledge the end of a chapter and move forward with a sense of closure. When we say goodbye, we also have the opportunity to express our gratitude to the person we are parting ways with. This expression of gratitude can strengthen our relationships and leave a lasting positive impression.

 

Expressing gratitude is an essential component of positive psychology, which emphasizes the importance of focusing on what is good and positive in our lives. By expressing gratitude, we can shift our focus from negative to positive, promoting our mental health and well-being. Moreover, expressing gratitude can also inspire others to do the same, creating a ripple effect of positivity and kindness.

 

CLICK HERE TO LISTEN TO THE SHIFTING OUR SH!T PODCAST

 

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Boundaries That Work

06 June 2023/in Blog, Boundaries, Mindfulness, Relationships, Self Love, Stress/by Megan Bartley

Are you like most people and struggle with overcommitting and saying yes to everything? Then you will not want to miss the WHAS Great Day Live segment with Megan Bartley as she offers tips for setting healthy boundaries. Megan offers advice for setting healthy boundaries and prioritizing self-care and references her online class on boundaries: The Art of Saying “No”: Boundaries That Work for You. By setting a time limit for events and reflecting on which events energize or drain us, we can protect our time and energy. It’s important to know when to say no and prioritize our well-being.

Set boundaries for self-care.

In today’s fast-paced world, it is easy to get caught up in the hustle and bustle of everyday life and it can be challenging to set aside time for self-care. However, it is crucial to establish healthy boundaries to protect our time and energy. Recently, Megan appeared on a WHAS segment and discussed the importance of setting boundaries for self-care.

 

Megan explained that it is natural to want to say yes to people who invite us to events. It feels good to be wanted, and we don’t want to disappoint others. However, saying yes to everything can be draining and exhausting, leaving us with little time and energy to take care of ourselves. When we take care of ourselves, we invite others to do the same.

 

Setting boundaries can be challenging, as many people view it as being selfish. However, it is a balance between giving our time to others and taking care of ourselves. We need to know when we need downtime and protect our time and energy. It is essential to understand that we don’t always have to take care of everyone else and that it is okay to say no.

 

Megan suggests that we change our “shoulds” to “coulds.” Instead of feeling like we should do something, we can think about what we could do and decide what is best for us. If we feel like we need to attend an event, we can set boundaries to limit our time there, so we don’t get drained.

Boundaries are an art form.

The art of setting boundaries involves learning how to say no in a polite and respectful manner. People often tend to say yes to everything, even if they do not have the time or energy to do it. Megan suggests that it is better to say, “Let me check my schedule and get back to you” instead of saying yes right away. This way, we give ourselves time to decide if we want to commit to something or not.

 

Setting boundaries is not only about saying no to others but also about setting limits on our own behavior. We can empower ourselves and fix our own “problems” when we see how we contribute to the issue and become intentional about fixing it. When we to learn how to prioritize our time and energy, we can focus on the things that matter the most. This means learning how to say no to and for ourselves when we need to take a break or rest.

 

In conclusion, setting boundaries for self-care is essential to protect our time and energy. It is a balance between giving our time to others and taking care of ourselves. By setting boundaries, we invite others to take care of themselves, creating a healthier and happier community. The art of setting boundaries requires practice and patience, but it is worth it in the end.

Check out the Boundaries Class HERE!

Click HERE to listen to the Shifting Our Sh!t podcast

 

WHAS The Art of Saying No: Boundaries That Work for You!

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Aging Mindfully

06 June 2023/in Mindfulness, Podcast, Self Love, Therapy/by Megan Bartley

In this episode of the SOS Podcast, hosts Megan Bartley and Rob Giltner celebrate Megan’s birthday while discussing the subjective nature of aging and the power of mindfulness in awakening new neural pathways. They also share personal updates and stories, including Megan’s favorite childhood birthday memory. Join them as they shift their sh!t and explore the complexities of life.

Navigate aging with a positive attitude.

Aging is a natural process that we all go through. However, it is often accompanied by fear and anxiety. As we age, we may start to worry about our physical appearance, our health, and our ability to keep up with the fast-paced world around us. But embracing aging with a positive attitude can help us navigate this process with grace and ease.

 

One of the keys to embracing aging is to focus on the positive aspects of getting older. As we age, we gain wisdom and experience that can help us navigate life’s challenges with greater ease. We also have the opportunity to cultivate deeper relationships with those around us, as we have more time and experience to invest in our connections with others.

 

Another important aspect of embracing aging is to take care of our physical and mental health. This means eating a healthy diet, getting regular exercise, and staying mentally engaged through activities like reading, learning new skills, and socializing with others. By taking care of our bodies and minds, we can ensure that we stay healthy and vibrant well into our later years.

 

It is also important to cultivate a positive attitude towards aging. Instead of seeing it as a negative process, we can view it as an opportunity for growth and transformation. By embracing the changes that come with aging, we can learn to appreciate the beauty of life at every stage.

 

In conclusion, embracing aging with a positive attitude is essential for living a happy and fulfilling life. By focusing on the positive aspects of aging, taking care of our physical and mental health, and cultivating a positive attitude, we can navigate the aging process with grace and ease. So let’s embrace aging and all that it has to offer!

 

“Reevaluate priorities in 40s.”

As we age, our priorities and perspectives on life change. In our 40s, we often experience a reevaluation of our priorities and what truly matters in life. This is commonly referred to as the “fuck it 40s” because we become less concerned with things that used to bother us and more focused on what brings us joy and fulfillment.

 

In the SOS podcast, Megan discusses her experience with the “fuck it 40s” and how it has changed her perspective on life. She talks about the realization that material possessions do not hold as much importance as they once did and the importance of focusing on relationships and experiences.

 

Megan also discusses the challenges of being in the “sandwich generation,” where individuals are taking care of their own children while also caring for aging parents. This can be a difficult time, but it also provides an opportunity for reevaluation and reassessment of priorities.

 

One of the key takeaways from this episode is the importance of embracing aging with a positive attitude. Megan discusses her own optimistic outlook on life and the importance of celebrating the fact that she was born. By focusing on the positive aspects of aging, taking care of our physical and mental health, and cultivating a positive attitude, we can navigate the aging process with grace and ease.

 

In conclusion, the “fuck it 40s” provides an opportunity for reevaluation and reassessment of priorities. By focusing on relationships and experiences, taking care of our physical and mental health, and embracing aging with a positive attitude, we can live a happy and fulfilling life. So let’s embrace aging and all that it has to offer!

 

Celebrate all aspects of life.

Megan and Rob’s conversation touches on the topic of celebrating all aspects of life, not just on special occasions like birthdays. They discuss how they have been approaching their own birthdays as they enter their 40s. They reflect on how they have shifted their focus from material gifts to experiences and relationships. They also mention how they have been taking better care of their physical and mental health.

 

The conversation highlights the importance of celebrating all aspects of life, not just the milestones. Megan and Rob talk about how they have been celebrating their accomplishments in work and personal life. They mention how they have been reflecting on their past achievements and optimizing them for the future. They also discuss the importance of taking breaks and traveling as a way to recharge and celebrate life.

 

Their conversation also touches on the topic of aging and how it can be embraced with a positive attitude. Megan and Rob talk about how they have been reevaluating their priorities and focusing on what truly matters in life. They mention how they have been embracing aging as a natural part of life and not something to be feared or avoided.

 

Approach aging with mindfulness.

How can we approach aging with mindfulness? Megan shares her positive attitude towards aging and how she sees it as an opportunity to gain more experience and wisdom. She also mentions how some people tend to fight against aging, which can lead to negative feelings and judgments toward themselves.

 

The concept of mindfulness is introduced as a way to embrace aging. Mindfulness is defined as a nonjudgmental observation of thoughts, feelings, and experiences. By practicing mindfulness, we can become more aware of our thoughts and emotions and learn to accept them without judgment.

 

Megan also talks about the importance of taking care of physical and mental health as we age. This includes getting enough rest, staying active, and seeking support when needed. By prioritizing our health, we can improve our overall well-being and enjoy life to the fullest.

 

Megan and Rob also touch on the idea of letting go of societal expectations and embracing our unique journey. They mention how some people may feel pressure to look a certain way or achieve certain milestones by a certain age. However, by letting go of these expectations, we can focus on our own journey and celebrate our accomplishments, no matter how big or small.

 

Accept and nurture aging gracefully.

Let’s ditch the negative connotations of aging. We can accept and nurture aging gracefully. We can look back on our lives and only focus on what we haven’t achieved can be painful. However, by accepting and nurturing ourselves, we can have a healthy relationship with aging. Mindfulness can play a vital role in this process as it helps us live in the present moment and appreciate what we have.

 

Megan and Rob talk about societal expectations regarding aging, such as the pressure to look youthful. They discuss how people often do things to enhance their appearance, such as coloring their hair or wearing fake eyelashes. While there is nothing wrong with these practices, it is essential to ask ourselves why we are doing them. Are we doing it for ourselves or because we feel pressure from society? By understanding our motivations, we can make more informed decisions about how we want to age.

 

We also need to take care of our health as we age. By eating well, exercising regularly, and getting enough sleep, we can improve our physical and mental well-being. These habits can also help us feel more confident and comfortable in our bodies as we age.

 

Change your perception of aging.

One key takeaway from this episode is the idea of changing our perception of aging. The speakers discuss how our beliefs about what it means to be “old” can limit our potential and affect our health. By challenging these beliefs and adopting a more positive outlook, we can live longer and healthier lives.

 

  1. One way to change our perception of aging is to focus on mindfulness and self-care. Megan and Rob emphasize the importance of taking care of our bodies and minds, whether through exercise, meditation, or other practices. By staying present in the moment and nurturing ourselves, we can reduce stress and improve our overall well-being.

 

  1. Another important aspect of changing our perception of aging is letting go of societal expectations. Megan and Rob point out how our culture often associates aging with decline and loss, but this does not have to be the case. By embracing new experiences and relationships, we can continue to grow and thrive as we age.

 

Ultimately, remember that aging is a natural and inevitable part of life, but it does not have to be a negative one. By changing our perception of aging and embracing all that life has to offer, we can live a happy and fulfilling life at any age.

 

Seek out new experiences.

One way to embrace aging and continue to grow is to seek out new experiences. You can:

  • learning something new
  • taking up a new hobby 
  • travel to new places 

These are exciting ways to build new neural pathways and keep our minds active and engaged. By doing so, we can avoid falling into the trap of autopilot and routine, which can lead to feelings of boredom, stagnation, and even depression.

 

By becoming more conscious of our thoughts, feelings, and behaviors, we can start to see things from different angles and awaken our autopilot. This can help us become more aware of the opportunities and possibilities that exist around us, and allow us to make more intentional choices about how we want to live our lives.

 

Of course, embracing new experiences can be scary and uncomfortable at times. It can be tempting to stick with what we know and what feels safe, rather than taking risks and trying new things. However, the rewards of stepping outside our comfort zones can be immense. By challenging ourselves and pushing our boundaries, we can discover new strengths, talents, and passions that we never knew we had.

 

Embrace your true self fully.

This means accepting all aspects of yourself, even the ones that others may not understand or appreciate. It’s about being true to who you are and not trying to conform to societal expectations or the expectations of others.

 

Megan talks about how she has always focused on being Megan and not just a wife, mother, or any other label that society may try to place on her. She acknowledges that there are parts of her that may be seen as introverted or not as outgoing as others, but she embraces these aspects of herself and doesn’t try to change them to fit in with others.

 

This is an important message for all of us to hear. We often try to fit into certain boxes or labels, whether it’s at work, in our personal lives, or in society as a whole. We may feel pressure to conform to certain expectations or to be someone we’re not in order to fit in.

 

But the truth is, when we try to be someone we’re not, we’re not being true to ourselves. We’re not living authentically, and we’re not living our best lives. When we embrace our true selves fully, we can live more fulfilling lives and be happier and more content.

 

This doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t strive to improve ourselves or try new things. In fact, the podcast encourages us to embrace new experiences for growth, no matter our age. By doing so, we can continue to learn, grow, thrive, and make the most of the time we have on this earth.

 

In conclusion, embracing your true self fully is essential for living a fulfilling and authentic life. It means accepting all aspects of yourself and not trying to conform to societal expectations or the expectations of others. So let’s embrace who we are and live life to the fullest, no matter our age or circumstances.

 

Click HERE to listen to the Shifting Our Sh!t podcast

 

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Time

05 May 2023/in Blog, Mindfulness/by Megan Bartley

On this episode of the SOS Podcast, hosts Megan and Rob discuss the concept of time and how it seems to move quickly during busy periods like the holiday season. They compare their current mindset to different animals, such as squirrels and prairie dogs, to reflect their mental state. The hosts explore their thoughts on how stressors and events affect our perception of time and how it seems to speed up during this time of year. Overall, they reflect on the importance of staying grounded and focused during busy times.

 

Time Distortion Can Help Us

Time distortion can be a powerful tool to help us reach our goals and dreams. It is the ability to perceive time differently than it is actually moving, either faster or slower. This can be used to gain insight into our past, present, and future.

 

When we look to our past, we can use time distortion to gain insight into our childhood. We can ask ourselves what advice we would give our younger selves, or what our younger selves would tell us now. This can be a powerful tool for self-reflection and understanding.

 

We can also use time distortion to look to the future. Visualization is a powerful tool for manifesting our goals and dreams. By visualizing our future, we can create a mental image of what we want to accomplish. This can help us stay focused and motivated on our goals.

 

Finally, time distortion can help us in the present. We can use it to slow down and appreciate the moment. We can take a step back and observe our lives from a different perspective. This can help us gain clarity and focus on what we want to do and how we want to live our lives.

 

Time distortion is a powerful tool that can help us gain insight into our past, present, and future. It can help us stay focused on our goals and dreams, and can help us gain clarity and appreciation for the present moment. By using time distortion, we can make the most of our lives and reach our full potential.

 

Plan ahead for clarity.

One way to use time distortion is to think about what your 80-year-old self would advise you to do. This can help us take a step back from our current situation and gain a more objective perspective. It can help us see how our decisions now will affect our future, and can help us make decisions that will lead to a better future. By seeing our decisions from the perspective of our future selves, we can make decisions that will bring us closer to our goals and dreams. 

    

Another way to use time distortion is to visualize our future and plan ahead. This can help us stay focused on our goals and dreams and can help us make decisions that are in line with our long-term goals. We can also use time distortion to see how our current decisions will affect our future, and to make decisions that will help us reach our desired destination. 

    

Lastly, we can use time distortion to gain clarity and appreciation for the present moment. By taking a step back and looking at our lives from a different perspective, we can gain a better understanding of our current situation and can learn to appreciate the present moment. We can also gain insight into our past and our future, which can help us make better decisions in the present. 

    

Time distortion is an invaluable tool that can help us gain clarity and appreciation for the present moment. It can help us stay focused on our goals and dreams, and can help us make decisions that will lead to a better future. By using time distortion, we can make the most of our lives and reach our full potential.

 

Shift perspective to gain clarity.

Time distortion is the act of shifting our perspective of time, either in the past or in the future. It can be used to gain clarity and understanding of a situation, and to make better decisions. 

 

We can use time distortion for gaining:

 

  • Insight into our own lives and to gain perspective on the lives of others. By shifting our perspective of time, we can gain a better understanding of the present moment and how our actions will affect our future.
  • Clarity on difficult situations. For example, if we are stuck in a difficult situation, we can use time distortion to help us see it from a different angle. We can imagine ourselves in a movie theater, and watch our current situation play out on the screen. We can then step into the movie and gain control over the narrative, deciding how we want the story to unfold. By doing this, we can gain a better understanding of the situation and make better decisions.
  • Perspective on our goals and dreams. We can imagine ourselves in the future, and see how our current actions will affect our future selves. We can imagine what our lives will look like in five, ten, or even twenty years. By doing this, we can gain insight into our goals and dreams, and make decisions that will help us reach them.

 

Overall, time distortion is an invaluable tool that can help us gain clarity and appreciation for the present moment. It can help us stay focused on our goals and dreams, and can help us make decisions that will lead to a better future. By using time distortion, we can make the most of our lives and reach our full potential.

 

Process grief with compassion.

When it comes to processing grief, it is important to do so with compassion. Grief is a difficult emotion to process and can be overwhelming. It is important to remember that grief is a natural process and it is important to allow ourselves to feel the emotions associated with grief.

 

It is important to talk to someone about our grief. Talking to a friend, family member, or therapist can help us to process our grief in a healthy way. We can also use time distortion to help us process our grief. Time distortion is a technique that can help us to reframe our experiences and gain clarity. By slowing down our perception of time, we can gain perspective and understanding.

 

When dealing with grief, it is important to be kind to ourselves. We need to give ourselves permission to feel the emotions associated with grief. We can also use self-care techniques such as yoga, meditation, and journaling to help us process our grief in a healthy way.

 

It is also important to remember that grief is a process and it is important to take it one step at a time. We can also use the support of others to help us process our grief. Talking to a friend, family member, or therapist can be helpful in dealing with grief.

 

Finally, it is important to remember that grief is a natural process and it is important to allow ourselves to feel the emotions associated with grief. By processing our grief with compassion, we can learn to accept and move forward with our lives.

 

Emotions in motion, release them.

Emotions in motion, release them. This is a phrase that is often used to describe the process of accepting and releasing emotions such as grief. It is essential to understand that emotions are not created or destroyed, but rather they are in constant motion. By allowing ourselves to experience our emotions, we can learn to cope with and process them in a healthier way.

 

When we experience grief, it is normal to feel overwhelmed and to want to push our emotions away. We may feel angry, sad, anxious, or guilty, and it can be difficult to process these emotions. However, it is important to remember that these emotions are natural and it is okay to feel them. By normalizing and accepting our emotions, we can begin to form a healthier relationship with them.

 

One way to do this is to practice mindfulness and observe our emotions without judgment. We can also practice gratitude and connection to what we have lost. This could be through spiritual rituals or by taking a moment to appreciate the life of the person we have lost. This can help us to find meaning in our grief and to move forward in a more positive way.

 

Finally, it is important to remember that emotions are in constant motion and it is essential to allow them to move through us. We can do this by taking time to acknowledge our emotions and to give them attention. By allowing ourselves to feel our emotions, we can begin to process and release them in a healthier way. 

 

Grief is a difficult emotion to process, but by allowing ourselves to experience and release our emotions, we can learn to cope with our grief in a healthier way.

 

Ways to process emotions.

One way to process our emotions is to explore the present with curiosity. By taking the time to observe our emotions and recognize them, we can begin to understand the source of our pain and the best way to move forward. By using the train station analogy, we can think of our emotions as trains that come and go. Instead of getting stuck on one emotion, we can keep the traffic flowing by allowing ourselves to process our emotions a little bit at a time.

 

We can also explore the present with curiosity by noticing and naming our emotions. By being aware of our emotions, we can begin to recognize patterns in our behavior and learn to manage our emotions in a healthier way. Additionally, by naming our emotions, we can gain a better understanding of what we are feeling and why.

 

Finally, we can explore the present with curiosity by asking ourselves questions. If we are feeling sadness, we can ask ourselves what we need to learn or know about this sadness. We can also ask ourselves what we need to do to make our sadness lighter or start to float away. By asking ourselves these questions, we can gain insight into our emotions and learn to cope with them in a more productive way.

 

In conclusion, exploring the present with curiosity can help us process our emotions in a healthier way. By being mindful of our emotions, naming them, and asking ourselves questions, we can gain insight into our feelings and learn to cope with our grief in a more productive way.

 

Be mindfully open-minded.

Being open-minded is an important part of life. It allows us to explore new ideas, consider different perspectives, and learn more about the world around us. However, it is important to remain mindful when we are open-minded. We must be aware of our feelings and emotions and how they may be affected by our openness.

 

One way to maintain an open mind while being mindful is to practice non-judgmental curiosity. We can ask ourselves questions about our experiences and feelings without coming to any conclusions. This allows us to explore our thoughts and emotions without attaching any labels or judgments to them. When we are curious about our emotions, we can gain insight into our feelings and learn to cope with our grief in a more productive way.

 

Another way to practice mindful open-mindedness is to take time to reflect on our experiences. We can pause and take a moment to process our feelings and thoughts without judging ourselves or others. This allows us to gain a better understanding of our emotions and how they may be affecting our lives. Taking the time to reflect can help us to better understand our emotions and how we can use them to our advantage.

 

Finally, it is important to remember that being open-minded does not mean that we have to agree with every opinion or perspective. We can be open-minded without compromising our values or beliefs. We can listen to other people’s opinions and consider different perspectives without feeling the need to agree with them. This allows us to maintain an open mind while still staying true to ourselves.

 

Overall, being open-minded is an important part of life. However, it is important to remain mindful when we are open-minded. By practicing non-judgmental curiosity, taking time to reflect on our experiences, and remembering that we do not have to agree with every opinion or perspective, we can maintain an open mind while still staying true to ourselves.

 

Build empathy through connection.

One way to build empathy through connection is to practice non-judgmental curiosity. This means that instead of immediately forming an opinion about someone or something, we take the time to ask questions and get to know the person or situation before forming an opinion. By doing this, we are able to get to know the person or situation better and can better understand their perspective. This helps us to form a more accurate opinion and can also help us to better understand our own perspectives.

 

Another way to build empathy through connection is to take time to reflect on our experiences. When we take the time to reflect on our experiences, we are able to gain a better understanding of our own thoughts and feelings. This can help us to better understand the thoughts and feelings of others, as well as our own. Taking the time to reflect can also help us to gain insight into our own biases and beliefs, which can help us to better understand the perspectives of those around us.

 

Finally, it is important to remember that we do not have to agree with every opinion or perspective. We can still remain open-minded while staying true to ourselves. We can still listen to different perspectives and take the time to understand them without necessarily agreeing with them. This helps us to gain a better understanding of those around us and can help us to build empathy through connection.

 

In conclusion, building empathy through connection is an important part of life. By practicing non-judgmental curiosity, taking time to reflect on our experiences, and remembering that we do not have to agree with every opinion or perspective, we can remain open-minded while still staying true to ourselves. This can help us to gain a better understanding of those around us and can help us to build empathy through connection.

 

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Technology & Mindfulness

03 March 2023/in Blog, Mindfulness, Self Love, Stress/by Megan Bartley

by Britt Riddle

I noticed recently that my smartwatch was giving me the “high heart rate” alarm more often than usual, which got me curious about how, if my watch can give me clues about when my nervous system may be heading toward dysregulation, I might also use it to help me move toward increased balance and emotional regulation.

If you wear a smartwatch, you’re likely familiar with the haptic sensation—that silent, slight vibration that provides tactile feedback—it’s just noticeable enough to notify us of a text, email, or movement goal, but undetectable to those around us. I downloaded a metronome app (mine is called Pulse, I’m sure there are many others) and set the metronome beat slower and slower. With each beat, I felt the haptic vibration on my wrist, and within a couple of minutes, I noticed my heart rate was decreasing—my heart rate and inhales/exhales were falling into sync with the rhythm of the vibration of the metronome.

This is a process called entrainment: when our body syncs with an external rhythm. This happens naturally when we dance to the beat of music we’re listening to or tap our fingers or feet to the rhythm of a sound we hear in our environment. When our nervous systems are heightened and we are in a state of fight, flight, or freeze, entrainment can help us start to shift from feeling tense, restless, and on edge to a state of relaxation. Our breathing and heart rate slow down, our muscles begin to relax, and we can bring ourselves back to the present moment where we can then choose to respond rather than react.

I usually set the metronome app on my watch to about 60 beats per minute for 3-5 minutes, and the more often I use it, the more easily my heart rate and breathing begin to sync with its rhythms. I also discovered an app called Sense Relief that provides haptic vibrations for three minutes straight, which I find helpful for bringing me mindfully back to the present when I am feeling stress rise in my mind and body. These gentle vibrations act as a cue, reminding me to take a deep breath and/or do a quick body scan to check in with how I am feeling and what I need.

As a therapist (and human), I love making technology work for/with me and my clients. The great thing aboutBritt, Riddle, Religious, Spiritual, Development, Injury using haptic vibration is that it can be used anywhere—in meetings at work, in between classes at school, out and about, or at home—to increase feelings of calm and peace.

If you are interested in exploring more about mindfulness, stress, and emotional regulation, I would be glad to talk with you to see how we might work together. You can contact me or schedule a free 10-minute consultation or first appointment with me here.

I look forward to hearing from you!

Britt Riddle, DMin, MDiv, MAMFT has over fifteen years of experience working in various helping professions and navigating and recovering from compassion fatigue and burnout. She specializes in working with people in helping professions who want to prevent or reduce compassion fatigue—by clarifying their values, nurturing inner peace, cultivating mindfulness practices and perspectives, and rediscovering what brings joy in their lives.

 

 

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Who Helps the Helpers?

02 February 2023/in Blog, Boundaries, Mindfulness, Self Love, Stress/by Megan Bartley

Is caring for others part of your job? Maybe you are a healthcare worker, faith leader, teacher, or non-profit leader who cares deeply about the people you serve, but sometimes you feel exhausted, frustrated, anxious, or irritable. If so, you may be experiencing compassion fatigue.

My name is Britt Riddle, and I have over fifteen years of experience working in a variety of helping professions and navigating and recovering from compassion fatigue and burnout. Compassion fatigue is a common response to the complex and overwhelming situations we may find ourselves in when working with people who have experienced trauma or other significant stressors in their lives. Now, as a therapist at The Mindfulness Center, I specialize in working with people in helping professions who want to prevent or reduce compassion fatigue—by clarifying their values, nurturing inner peace, cultivating mindfulness practices and perspectives, and rediscovering what brings joy in their lives.

Compassion fatigue refers to the emotional, physical, and spiritual exhaustion that comes from being consistently exposed to stressors in other peoples’ lives.

 Signs you may be experiencing compassion fatigue may include:

  • Emotional Exhaustion: Feeling overwhelmed, burned out, and emotionally drained from caring for others;
  • Physical Exhaustion: Experiencing physical symptoms such as fatigue, headaches, and difficulty sleeping;
  • Spiritual Exhaustion: Feeling disconnected from your values, beliefs, and sense of purpose;
  • Depersonalization: Feeling detached and removed from the people you are trying to help, and experiencing a decrease in empathy and compassion
  • Challenges with Emotional Regulation: Feelings such as anger, frustration, sadness, and hopelessness may feel more intense and may make it more difficult to feel grounded;
  • Decreased Sense of Self-Worth: Feeling that your work is unimportant and not making a difference.

 The good news is that researchers have identified specific risk factors and protective factors for compassion fatigue and burnout. This means we can work on shifting our perspectives, learning new skills, and making small changes to our environment to reduce compassion fatigue. When protective factors for compassion fatigue are cultivated, compassion resilience can emerge—the ability to maintain our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being while compassionately caring for others.

People and workplaces that foster resilience on a regular basis create an environment where employees feel less stress, experience fewer feelings of imposter syndrome, are more socially connected, and find greater meaning in their work. This leads to greater work satisfaction, increased productivity, and less burnout/turnover.

 In addition to providing therapy, we often get requests from organizations about how we can support their work and their employees. We care best for others when we ourselves feel supported, which is why we would be glad to partner with you to customize trainings, workshops, and support/education groups to support your employees and organization as you do the important work of caring for others.

Britt, Riddle, Religious, Spiritual, Development, Injury If you are interested in exploring compassion fatigue and compassion resilience, either for yourself or your organization, I would be glad to talk with you more about this to see how we might work together. You can contact me or schedule a free 10-minute consultation or first appointment with me here: https://mindfulness-center.com/our-team/britt-riddle-dmin-mamft/. I look forward to hearing from you!

 

 

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Ready for a RESET?!

07 July 2022/in Blog, Mindfulness, Self Love/by Megan Bartley

Ready for a reset?!

Yeah, me too!! It’s definitely that time of year!

With that said, I LOVE summertime! Every year I think that I’ll take the summer “off” and not work so much. That lasts about one week and then things start moving and shaking. All the balls I juggle don’t just disappear, they’re still there and need my attention. So I’m currently back to juggling all my balls while balancing the kiddos out of school and trying to get in a bit of time away…one weekend to Nashville, another to Lake Cumberland.

I will say, now that my kids are older (9 and 12) I’m not (YET!) as desperate to get them back in school ASAP as I was when they were younger. They are pretty self-sufficient and my husband, who works remotely from home, loves having the company…so do the pups – Lemon Drop and Deuce Pugalo!

Now, let’s dream of the reset we need… time, space, quiet, relaxation, nature, beauty, creativity…what would you add?

In January I will be heading back to Napa Valley for my annual retreat time and would love to take a few people along who are looking to reset and refresh as well. Could that be you?

This year I will host a women’s retreat (January 9-13) as well as a co-ed, weekend (January 12-16) retreat.

Early Bird Registration will be open for two weeks beginning mid-August. General Registration opens September 1st.

Check out the details below. Early bird registration will be availabe mid-August through end of August. Full registration opens September 1, 2022.

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A Gift For You!

07 July 2022/in Blog, Mindfulness, Online Courses, Relationships, Self Love, Stress/by Megan Bartley

A Gift For You! 

We had a wonderful time during our Open House as Louisville Mindfulness Center celebrated its 5th anniversary!  We enjoyed catching up with friends and family from near and far with a few fun blasts from the past to boot! 

Again, we want to thank all of our supporters, whether you were able to make the event or not!! We are definitely feeling the love!

AND…. we want to spread that love even more! We are extending our half-price offer on our online courses through the month of July in honor of our anniversary! 

The two key online courses we currently have are “The Art of Saying No” and “Dealing With Difficult People”.

Whether you’re new to setting mindful boundaries, needing a quick yet comprehensive refresher on your boundary-setting skills, or you’re wanting to take your self-care practice to the next level, these wonderful, bite-sized videos are written and presented by Megan Bayles Bartley herself! For those of you who have spent time with Megan, you know she’s bursting with inspiration and empowerment to help you live your best life! You don’t want to miss out!

Plus, these courses are cheaper than ONE therapy session! Who can say “No” to that?! 

Check them out here: https://mindfulness-center.com/awaken-autopilot/

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